To keep our space focused on genuine connection, mutual respect, and the shared celebration of the old ways, we operate by a set of simple, non-negotiable community standards. These are not ideological litmus tests; they are basic guidelines for civilized, adult human interaction.

All these rules fall into the category of the Pagan concepts of; Frith (Norse), Mir (Slavic), Síd (Celtic), Cairde (Celtic), Pax Deorum (Roman), Ṛta (Vedic, Hindu), Àlàáfíà (African Dispora), Ìwà Pẹ̀lẹ́ (African Dispora), Ubuntu (African Dispora), Itutu (African Dispora), Friþ (Anglo-Saxon), Mund (Anglo-Saxon), Āð (Anglo-Saxon), Ξενία (Greek), Εὐσέβεια (Greek), Ἐκεχειρία (Greek), Pyhä ja Rauha (Finnish), Väki (Finnish), Hospitality (Universal), Hiidenrauha (Finnish), Perfect Love and Perfect Trust (Neo-Pagan), An ye harm none, do what ye will (Neo-Pagan), All My Relations (Native American), Diné (Native American), Love and Light (New Age), The Great Law of Peace (Native American), The Good Life (Native American), It’s All Good (Hippie), Live and Let Live (Dutch, Jain, Modern), Ahimsa (Hindu, Jain, Buddhist), Shanti (Hindu, Jain, Buddhist), Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law Love is the law love under will (Thelema), No Worries (Modern), Pas de problème (French), Hakuna Matata (Swahili), Asha (Persian), Arta (Vedic, Hindu, Persian), Mithra (Persian), Yazna (Persian), Šalām (Middle Eastern), Ḥaram (Middle Eastern), Diyāfah (Middle Eastern), Hé 和 (Chinese), Lǐ 禮 (Chinese), Dharma (Vedic, Hindu, Buddhist, Jain, Sikh), Tianming 天命 (Chinese), Wa 和 (Shinto), Kegare 穢れ (Shinto), Makoto 誠 (Shinto), Chinju no Mori (Shinto), Namaste (Hindu), Namaskaram (Hindu), Tregereg (Mongolian), Kheshig (Mongolian), Mīšarum (Jewish), Derech Eretz (Jewish), Agape (Christian), Koinonia (Christian), Law of Asylum and the Right of Sanctuary (Christian), Kinship System (Australian Aboriginal), Avoidance Laws (Australian Aboriginal), Dadirri (Australian Aboriginal), Malu (Australian Aboriginal), Rongo (Māori), Manaakitanga (Māori), Pōwhiri (Māori), Tino Rangatiratanga (Māori), Ma’at (Egyptian), Isfet (Egyptian), Heka (Egyptian), Malo (Polynesia), Melino (Polynesia), Aloha (Polynesia), Alofa (Polynesia), Mana (Polynesia), Tapu (Polynesia), Puʻuhonua (Polynesia), Inuuqatigiitsiarniq (Inuit), Tunnganarniq (Inuit), Kajusiniq and the Rejection of Ego (Inuit), Respecting the Inua (Inuit), Ayni (Latin American Native), Ajil Tz’aqat (Latin American Native), Tlanemacac (Latin American Native), Macehualiztli (Latin American Native), Yvy Marane’y (Latin American Native), Ráfhi (Sámi People), Siida System (Sámi People), Sieidi (Sámi People), Noaidi and the Restorative Path (Sámi People), Peace Testimony (Quaker), Answering That of God in Everyone (Quaker), Meeting for Business Peace Through Consensus (Quaker), Sanctuary of the Meeting House (Quaker), The Covenant (Bahá’í), Mashverat (Bahá’í), Prohibition of Backbiting (Bahá’í), Sakinah (Islam), Aman (Islam), Taming the Nafs (Islam), Adab (Islam), Sangat (Sikh), Langar (Sikh), Sarbat da Bhala (Sikh), Direct Accountability to the Divine (Sikh), Livity (Rastafari), I and I (Rastafari), Word, Sound, and Power (Rastafari), Reasoning (Rastafari), Welcome Home (Rainbow Gathering), Shanti Sena (Rainbow Gathering), Your kink is not my kink but your kink is okay (BDSM), I disapprove of what you say but I will defend to the death your right to say it (Enlightenment Thinking), Prime Directive (Star Trek), Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combinations (Star Trek), Robert’s Rules of Order (Secular Social Order), Talking Feather (Native American, Rainbow Gathering), Talking Stick (Native American), Sacred Space (Universal), Respect (Universal), Sharing Resources (Universal), Helping Others (Universal), Kindness (Universal), Unconditional Love (Universal), Being Polite (Universal), Controlling the Ego (Universal), Accepting Human Diversity (Universal), Respecting All Life (Universal), Need For Human Social Interaction (Universal), Spiritual Fellowship (Universal), Being Diplomatic (Universal), Overlooking Differences (Universal), Charity (Universal), Helping the Less Fortunate (Universal), Respecting Elders (Universal), Helping the Disabled (Universal), Helping Old People (Universal), Honesty (Universal), Keeping Ones Word (Universal), Upholding Oaths (Universal), Keeping Negitive Thoughts to Yourself (Universal), Following the Basic Universal Shared Moral Frame of All Humanity (Universal), Following the Local Laws of Society (Universal), Respecting the Host Location (Universal), Respecting the People Hosting (Universal), Monetary Status Not Being An Obstacle to Spiritual Fellowship (Universal), Sharing Ideas (Universal), Respecting Ancestors (Universal), Protecting Nature (Universal), Respecting Nature (Universal), Respecting and Caring for Animals (Universal), Respecting and Caring For Natural Resources (Universal), Respecting and Caring for Plant-Life (Universal), Respecting The Privacy and Individual Personal Sovereignty of Adult People’s Sex Life (Universal), Historical Preservation As Ancestor Worship (Universal), Sharing Culture (Universal).

1. The Prime Directive: Sovereign Boundaries

Every individual’s spiritual path, personal identity, sexual identity, gender identity, ethnic identity, political identity, life challenges, ancestry, disability, social class, substance preferences, life purpose, weirdness, non-conformity, appearance, how they dress, and autonomy are entirely their own. As long as it does not violate local laws, broadly universal secular morals, or the well-being of the group we don’t care.

• No Proseltizing or Gatekeeping: You are here to share your path, not to enforce it on others. Do not dictate how others should practice, what they should believe, how they should live, who they define themselves as, who they have relationships with, who they have sex with, how they have sex, what they should believe, what they think, what they say, how they should speak, or tell them their personal practice is “wrong” or “closed.”
• Consent is Absolute: This applies to physical touch, taking photographs, participating in rituals, or sharing personal stories. Respect a “no” instantly and without demand for explanation.

2. Radical Focus: Keep the Secular Drama Out

This group exists as a sanctuary from the noise of the mundane world. We gather to connect with the Gods, Goddesses, spiritual beings, the ancestors, the land, and each other.

• No Secular Political Campaigning: Leave 21st-century partisan politics, ideological culture wars, and social engineering at the door.
• Focus on Common Ground: We discuss philosophy, history, folklore, metaphysics, occult, spirituality, mental health, anthropology, magick, divination, and practice. If a topic divides the room into secular political factions, it belongs outside this circle.

3. Absolute Respect for Ancestors and Elders

We honor the roots of the traditions we study and the people who kept the flames alive before us.

• No Defamation or Cancel Culture: Disagreements over philosophy or historical interpretation are natural and welcome. Disagree politely and respectfully. Public character assassination, internet-style pile-ons, and attempts to ostracize elders or members over minor differences will result in immediate removal.
• Civil Discourse: Attack the argument, never the person. Honor others’ personal truth. Honor your personal truth. Speak with honor and expect the same in return.

4. Zero Tolerance for Disruptive Dominance

A functional community requires shared space. No single voice is permitted to hijack the group for personal validation or control. Everyone gets the chance to speak and be heard.

• No Main-Character Syndrome: Do not monopolize discussions, turn group rituals into personal therapy sessions, or use the space to stir up interpersonal drama.
• Cleanliness and Contribution: Respect the physical space we occupy. Clean up after yourself, respect the hosts, and contribute constructively to the group’s logistics.

The Enforcement Rule

We do not argue over these rules. If an individual behaves in a way that is predatory, hyper-controlling, abusive, or persistently disruptive to the peace of the hearth, they will be quietly and permanently removed from the group. We protect the circle so the magick can thrive.