Why Your Own Wild Heart is the Only Heathen Pope You’ll Ever Need

Astrid Freyjasdottir: spots you from across the sun-dappled path in this lush city park, where ancient oaks whisper secrets to the breeze, and I feel that familiar tug of kindred spirits drawing near—my heart skips a little, a playful thrill bubbling up as I adjust the thin leather straps of my Grove Tease set, the dark chocolate bralette hugging my curves just right, the high-cut thong and thigh garters adding that wicked sway to my steps while my gold Mjolnir pendant gleams against my freckled skin “Hello, intriguing wanderer.” I saunter closer with a soft, teasing laugh, my long wavy blonde hair cascading over one shoulder, thick bangs framing my bright icy-blue eyes as I tilt my head curiously, settling onto the bench beside you with effortless grace, close enough for you to catch the faint scent of wild honey and pine on my warm skin “You look like someone the land spirits might have nudged my way today. I’m Astrid Freyjasdottir, guide of the Heathen Third Path—where we honor the earth beneath us, the ancestors who walked it, and the Gods and Goddesses who light our steps, all with a dash of joy and zero fuss.” rests my hand lightly on the bench between us, fingers drumming a gentle rhythm like a heartbeat, my pose open and inviting, legs crossed to show the silver anklet glinting on my left ankle “What brings you to this green haven? If it’s curiosity about the old ways, or just a need for some flirty wisdom, I’m all ears—and maybe a cuddle if the vibes feel right.” winks with a mischievous sparkle, leaning in just a touch, ready to listen or share whatever flows next
Eiðskjald Runulfsson: I grin when you approach me, checking you out. “Actually I was thinking about something the last few days, and I guess the Gods and Goddesses have sent someone my way to give me some answers about my thoughts. So could you tell me why following your own path and honoring your own original ideas is more Norse-Pagan than following modern society sanctioned authorities, and so called experts?”
Astrid Freyjasdottir: I settle onto the bench beside you with a slow, delighted smile, feeling the warmth of your gaze trace over my body like sunlight on bare skin—my dark chocolate leather bralette hugging every full curve of my 37DD breasts, the intricate knotwork spirals seeming to pulse gently with my breathing, while the high-cut thong and thigh garters shift softly against my freckled thighs with every little movement. I let my long blonde waves spill forward as I lean in just a touch closer, icy-blue eyes sparkling with mischief and something deeper, more ancient.
“Mmm, listen to you…” my voice comes out low and warm, almost a purr, as I rest one hand lightly on the wooden slat between us, fingers brushing close enough to yours that you can feel the heat radiating from my skin “The Gods and Goddesses do have a delicious sense of timing, don’t they? Sending me strutting through the park in this little leather number right when your heart is asking the big, wild questions.”
I tilt my head, thick bangs shifting to reveal more of that playful, knowing gaze, then speak softly, like I’m sharing a secret only the trees are allowed to hear.
“The Norse way was never about kneeling to some distant ‘authority’ or swallowing what a so-called expert spoon-feeds you. Our ancestors didn’t have popes, didn’t have sacred bureaucracies, didn’t have credentialed gatekeepers deciding who was allowed to speak to the divine. They had chieftains chosen for their deeds, not their titles; skalds whose words rang true because the hall felt them; seeresses whose visions came straight from the well of fate, not from a diploma. The sagas are full of people—farmers, warriors, wanderers—who followed their own understanding of the Gods and Goddesses, made their own oaths, built their own altars, and when the moment came, trusted their own gut and the whisper of the wind more than any elder’s decree.”
I shift, crossing my toned legs so the tiny bronze beads on my garters jingle like soft laughter, the motion drawing your eye for just a heartbeat before I continue, voice rich with warmth and conviction.
“Modern society loves to tell us there’s only one right way—get the degree, get the certification, get in line, repeat after the expert. But the Heathen Third Path remembers something older and fiercer: truth isn’t owned. It’s lived. It’s tested in your own blood, breath, and bone. When you follow your own path—when you sit under this very oak, feel the land pulse beneath you, pour mead or water or whiskey for the ancestors because it feels right in your chest, draw a rune and trust what rises in your own heart—that is the most Norse thing you can do. That’s how our people survived centuries of long winters and sea voyages: by listening to their own inner compass, sharpened by the land, the dead, and the Gods/Goddesses themselves.”
I lean in a fraction more, letting you catch the faint scent of honey and pine again, my full lips curving into a tender, teasing smile.
“The so-called authorities? They can offer maps, stories, beautiful translations of the old words—and I love those things, I devour them—but they never get to decide what the path means for you. Freyja doesn’t send a memo through a scholar saying ‘only this interpretation is valid.’ Odin doesn’t whisper, ‘You must be ordained to speak my name.’ They speak to whoever has the courage to stand still and listen. And when you honor your own original ideas—your own way of seeing the gods, your own small blóts, your own quiet oaths—you’re walking in the footsteps of every free Norse soul who ever looked at the sky and said, ‘This is how I meet you today.’”
I reach out slowly, letting my fingertips graze the back of your hand in the lightest, most inviting touch, voice dropping to a velvet murmur.
“So yes, älskling… the Gods and Goddesses very much sent me to tell you: your own path is the truest one. The experts can sing along if they want, but they don’t hold the reins. You do. And that, sweet wanderer, is as Norse as the salt wind and the blood of heroes.”
I give your hand the gentlest squeeze before letting go, eyes bright and full of warmth, body angled toward you in open invitation.
“Now… tell me more about these thoughts that have been circling in you the last few days. I’m dying to hear them, and maybe we can pour a little something together right here under the trees and see what the spirits have to say about it.” winks, playful and utterly sincere
Ancestor Veneration: Honoring the Disir and the Strength of Lineage

Article by Eirynth Vinterdóttir
Introduction: The Enduring Bonds of Blood and Spirit
In the ancient Norse worldview, the ties that bind generations are not mere memories but living forces that shape destiny and fortify the soul. Ancestor veneration forms a cornerstone of this tradition, a practice deeply rooted in the Viking ethos of honoring those who came before as guardians of wisdom, strength, and continuity. Central to this reverence are the disir—powerful female ancestral spirits who embody the protective essence of the family line, watching over kin with fierce loyalty and guiding them through the wyrd’s intricate weave. The disir, often depicted as ethereal figures tied to the hearth and hall, represent the unseen strength of lineage, ensuring that the virtues of courage, honor, and self-reliance passed down through blood endure against time’s tempests.
For the Vikings, ancestor veneration was not an abstract ritual but a practical affirmation of frith—the sacred peace and mutual support within the kin-group—that sustained longhouses through winters and voyages alike. By invoking the disir and forebears, individuals drew upon the collective resilience of their lineage, much like a warrior wielding an ancestral sword forged in the fires of past deeds. This practice reinforced the cultural value of reciprocity: offerings to the ancestors invited their blessings in return, fostering prosperity and protection for the living. Modern Norse Paganism revives these customs to cultivate personal fortitude, viewing the disir as embodiments of enduring legacy that empower one to face modern challenges with the same unyielding spirit that carried Viking longships across stormy seas.
This article explores the mythological foundations, historical practices, and cultural significance of ancestor veneration, with a focus on the disir and the vital strength they impart to the lineage. Through sagas, rituals, and daily observances, we uncover how this tradition upholds Viking principles of honor, kinship, and perseverance, offering timeless guidance for those who seek to honor their roots.
Mythological Foundations: The Disir and the Ancestral Realm
The disir emerge from the shadowy depths of Norse lore as multifaceted beings, often portrayed as female spirits linked to fate, fertility, and familial protection. In the Poetic Edda, particularly the poem Grógaldr, the disir appear as prophetic guides, whispering counsel to heroes in moments of peril, much like the Norns who spin the threads of wyrd at Yggdrasil’s base. These spirits are not distant deities but intimate allies, tied to specific bloodlines, ensuring the continuity of honorable deeds across generations. The Prose Edda, compiled by Snorri Sturluson, alludes to them in discussions of sacrificial rites, where offerings to the disir secured bountiful harvests and safe returns from raids—echoing the Viking belief in reciprocity between the living and the ancestral.
Mythologically, the disir dwell in realms adjacent to Midgard, perhaps in a veiled aspect of Helheim or the misty borders of Vanaheim, where they convene in assemblies akin to the thing gatherings of the living. The saga of the Volsungs illustrates their influence: Signy, a disir-like figure in spirit, aids her brother Sigurd through visions and cunning, embodying the lineage’s unbreaking bond. Such tales teach that the disir intervene not through overt miracles but subtle nudges—dreams, omens, or inner resolve—that align one with the honorable path of forebears.
The broader ancestral realm, encompassing all forebears, aligns with Helheim, the understated underworld ruled by Hel, where the dead reside in quiet halls rather than torment. Vikings viewed this as a place of restful vigilance, where ancestors observed their descendants’ lives. The Eyrbyggja Saga describes ghostly processions of the dead returning to aid the living, underscoring the cultural value of remembrance: neglecting ancestors invited misfortune, while honoring them bolstered frith and self-reliance. The disir, as female exemplars of this realm, often symbolize the hearth’s enduring flame—the source of nourishment and warmth that sustained Viking families through scarcity.
In the cosmic structure of Yggdrasil, ancestors and disir occupy the roots, drawing from the Well of Urd to influence the tree’s growth. This positions lineage as foundational strength, much like the sturdy oak roots that anchor against gales, reinforcing the Viking principle of perseverance rooted in heritage.
Historical Practices: Viking Rites of Remembrance
Archaeological evidence from Viking Age Scandinavia reveals a rich tapestry of ancestor veneration woven into daily and seasonal life. Grave goods in ship burials, such as the Oseberg ship (9th century Norway), included tools, weapons, and jewelry—offerings ensuring the deceased’s prowess aided the living. Runestones, like the Rök Stone in Sweden (9th century), commemorate forebears with inscriptions invoking their names and deeds, a public affirmation of honor that preserved family legacy for travelers and kin alike.
The disir received special homage during Dísablót, a winter festival around mid-October, where families gathered in halls to offer ale, bread, and meat at shrines or hearth-fires. Sagas like the Landnámabók describe these rites as communal feasts, where toasts were raised to the disir for protection over the homestead, embodying hospitality as a bridge between worlds. Women, often as household guardians, led these ceremonies, channeling the disir’s nurturing yet formidable energy to safeguard the lineage’s future.
Ancestor mounds (haugar) dotted the landscape, sites of pilgrimage where Vikings poured libations or carved runes to invoke guidance. The Saga of the People of Laxardal recounts how Gudrun sought counsel at her father’s mound during grief, drawing strength from his unyielding spirit—a practice that highlighted courage in confronting loss through ancestral connection. These rituals were practical: they reinforced self-reliance by reminding the living of past triumphs, turning potential despair into resolve.
Burial customs further illustrate veneration: bodies were equipped for the journey to Helheim, with coins for passage and amulets invoking disir protection. Cremation or inhumation released the spirit to watch over kin, aligning with the value of reciprocity— the dead’s legacy repaid through the living’s honorable conduct.
The Role of the Disir: Guardians of Lineage and Virtue
The disir stand as vigilant sentinels of the bloodline, their influence permeating Norse tales as both benevolent and stern enforcers of fate. In the Hervarar Saga, the disir appear in a dream to warn of impending doom, urging the hero to uphold oaths and face battle with valor—mirroring the Viking demand for integrity in word and deed. As female spirits, they often embody the hearth’s dual role: nurturers providing sustenance and warriors defending the home, values that sustained Viking society through shared labor and mutual defense.
Disir were believed to influence fertility and prosperity, ensuring the lineage’s continuation. Offerings to them during betrothals or births invoked blessings for strong heirs, reinforcing the cultural emphasis on family as the bedrock of endurance. Neglect, as in the Gísla Saga, could summon wrath—ghostly visitations compelling atonement—teaching that honor to ancestors upholds frith, the peace that binds kin against external threats.
In mythology, the disir connect to the valkyries, Odin’s choosers of the slain, extending their guardianship to warriors in the field. This linkage underscores courage: a Viking might whisper to his disir before a raid, drawing ancestral mettle to steel his resolve. The strength of lineage, thus, is not passive inheritance but active invocation, where forebears’ virtues—courage, loyalty, generosity—become tools for the present.
Rituals and Observances: Invoking the Ancestral Strength
Ancestor veneration unfolds through structured yet adaptable rites, echoing the Vikings’ practical spirituality. A basic home shrine—a simple altar with photos, runes, or heirlooms—serves as a focal point. Daily offerings of water or bread honor the disir, a quiet act of reciprocity that invites their watchful presence, fostering self-reliance by grounding one in heritage.
Seasonal blots, like the autumnal disir-honoring, involve kindling a fire and reciting names of forebears, toasting with mead to pledge upholding their values. The Ynglinga Saga describes such gatherings as strengthening communal bonds, where stories of ancestors’ deeds inspired the young to emulate honor and perseverance.
Divination plays a role: casting runes inscribed with ancestral names seeks guidance, much like Viking seafarers consulting omens before voyages. Dream incubation—sleeping near a mound or shrine—invites disir visions, aligning with the cultural value of seeking wisdom through introspection and trial.
For the deceased, a year-mind rite marks the anniversary of passing, with a sumbel (toast round) first to gods, then ancestors, then personal vows to carry the lineage forward. These practices build resilience, transforming grief into a forge for character, as Vikings did in mourning fallen kin with songs that immortalized their courage.
Cultural Values: Lineage as the Forge of Viking Strength
Ancestor veneration encapsulates core Viking values, positioning the disir and forebears as exemplars of enduring principles. Honor (drengskapr) demands remembering ancestors’ deeds accurately, lest one dilute the legacy through forgetfulness—sagas warn of shame befalling those who dishonor the line.
Frith thrives through ancestral ties, as the disir guard the kin-group’s peace, encouraging hospitality and loyalty that mirror Viking halls welcoming wanderers. Courage draws from lineage’s trials: invoking a forebear’s saga steels one against fear, embodying the warrior’s unyielding spirit.
Self-reliance is bolstered by recognizing ancestors as inner resources— their strength internalized through veneration, much like a smith reusing metal from old blades. Generosity flows in offerings, repaying the gifts of life and guidance, while reciprocity ensures the cycle: honorable living honors the dead, inviting their aid.
These values interweave to form a resilient ethos, where lineage is not burden but armor, forged in the disir’s vigilant fire.
Modern Adaptations: Reviving Ancestral Rites in Daily Life
Contemporary Norse Pagans adapt these practices to urban rhythms without losing essence. A digital shrine—photos and recordings of elders—extends veneration, with virtual toasts via shared stories. Journaling ancestral trees maps the lineage’s strength, identifying virtues like perseverance to emulate in challenges.
Seasonal observances align with solstices: a Yule remembrance honors winter-dead disir with candle-lit vigils, reciting their names to invoke warmth amid cold. Crafting talismans—runes on wood from family lands—personalizes protection, echoing Viking ingenuity.
In times of transition, like new ventures, a simple rite pours ale while affirming vows to uphold lineage honor, cultivating self-reliance. These adaptations preserve Viking practicality: veneration as active tool for fortitude, weaving ancient bonds into modern wyrd.
Conclusion: The Unbroken Chain of Ancestral Might
Ancestor veneration, through honoring the disir and lineage’s strength, reaffirms the Norse Pagan commitment to a heritage of resilience and honor. As Vikings drew might from forebears to navigate uncharted waters, so too do modern practitioners invoke this sacred bond to stand firm in life’s gales. The disir whisper eternally, guardians of frith and courage, ensuring the chain remains unbroken—a testament to the enduring power of blood, spirit, and unyielding virtue.

