Wiccan Simple Esbat for a Couple


Performed skyclad under the waxing or full moon in a secluded grove, with consent as the unbreakable Rede.

Preparation
Choose a sacred space in nature or a dim chamber. Anoint with natural oils like rose or patchouli if desired. Bathe in stream water or herbal infusion for purity. Set a simple altar of found items: stones for Earth, a feather for Air, a flame (candle or small fire) for Fire, a bowl of rainwater for Water. Symbols for Freyja (amber stone, falcon imagery) and Freyr (wheat stalk, boar symbol) may adorn, but hands and intent cast all.

Casting the Circle
Stand skyclad, facing north.
Join hands and walk deosil (clockwise) thrice around the space, visualizing a blue flame boundary.
Chant together:
“By will and word, we cast this circle, a veil between the worlds, sacred and whole.”
– Call the Quarters, starting East, moving deosil, gesturing with open hands:
– *East (Air)*:
“Hail Guardians of the East, powers of Air and intellect, breath of Freyja’s falcon wings, come witness and protect.”
– *South (Fire)*:
“Hail Guardians of the South, powers of Fire and will, Freyr’s burning passion, ignite our rite.”
– *West (Water)*:
“Hail Guardians of the West, powers of Water and emotion, Freyja’s tears of gold, flow through us.”
– *North (Earth)*:
“Hail Guardians of the North, powers of Earth and body, Freyr’s fertile soil, ground our magick.”
– Invoke the center:
“Spirit within, bind this circle true.”

Invocation of Deities
Stand facing each other.
– Priestess raises arms:
“Freyja, Vanadis, Lady of love, war, and seiðr, golden-haired mistress of Folkvangr, descend into me, fill me with your ecstasy and power. So mote it be.”
– Priest kneels briefly:
“Freyr, Yngvi, Lord of peace, plenty, and virility, boar-riding god of Alfheim, enter me, grant your vitality and harvest. So mote it be.”
– Embrace lightly, awakening the divine presence.

The Five-Fold Kiss
To bless and arouse the gods within, performed fully twice. First, priest to priestess:
– Priest kisses priestess’s feet:
“Blessed be thy feet, that have brought thee in these ways.”
– Priest kisses priestess’s knees:
“Blessed be thy knees, that shall kneel at the sacred altar.”
– Priest kisses priestess’s vagina:
“Blessed be thy womb, without which we would not be.”
– Priest kisses priestess’s breasts:
“Blessed be thy breast, formed in beauty and strength.”
– Priest kisses priestess’s lips:
“Blessed be thy lips, that shall utter the Sacred Names.”
Then, switch: priestess to priest:
– Priestess kisses priest’s feet:
“Blessed be thy feet, that have brought thee in these ways.”
– Priestess kisses priest’s knees:
“Blessed be thy knees, that shall kneel at the sacred altar.”
– Priestess kisses priest’s phallus:
“Blessed be thy phallus, fountain of life and pleasure.”
– Priestess kisses priest’s chest:
“Blessed be thy chest, formed in strength and beauty.”
– Priestess kisses priest’s lips:
“Blessed be thy lips, that shall utter the Sacred Names.”

Scourging for Purification
– Stand facing each other, the priest holding the scourge. With mutual agreement, the priestess receives first:
– Priest says:
“By the touch of the scourge, I purify thee, releasing all that hinders thy divine essence.”
– Gently strikes the priestess’s shoulders and back five times, light and rhythmic, symbolizing the shedding of impurities.
– Priestess then takes the scourge, saying:
“By the touch of the scourge, I purify thee, freeing thy spirit for the gods.”
– Returns five gentle strikes to the priest’s shoulders and back.
– Both breathe deeply, visualizing cleansed energy rising.

Ritual Dancing (Raising the Cone of Power)
Join hands and dance deosil around the space, feet stamping the earth, bodies swaying. Chant in unison, voices building:
“Freyja’s fire, Freyr’s seed,
surge within us, fulfill our need.
Power rise, from earth to sky,
in union’s bliss, our magick fly!”
Visualize energy as a glowing cone spiraling upward. Continue until the surge peaks, breaths quickened, forms alive with primal heat.

The Great Rite Actual
At the zenith, enact the sacred marriage—the true union of bodies as Freyja and Freyr. On a bed of soft earth, moss, or herbs, the priestess receives as the Goddess, the priest gives as the God. With reverence and consent:
– Priestess:
“I am the Goddess, vessel of creation.”
– Priest:
“I am the God, spear of life.”
– Unite in ritual intercourse, moving with the surging rhythm, channeling power into the joining. Female receptive, male projective, blending into oneness. Chant softly:
“As Freyja and Freyr entwine, so do we divine.”
Climax releases the cone toward the intent (fertility, love, harvest). Linger connected, grounding the ecstasy.

Cakes and Ale
Share simple food (bread, fruit) and drink (wine, mead, or water) to earth the energy.
– Priestess offers drink:
“May you never thirst.”
– Priest offers food:
“May you never hunger.”
– Partake, spilling libations to the deities and elements.

Thanksgiving and Closing
– Thank the deities:
“Freyja and Freyr, we thank thee for thy presence and blessings. Depart if ye must, but stay if ye will. Hail and farewell.”
– Dismiss the Quarters widdershins (counterclockwise), starting North, gesturing farewell:
– *North*:
“Guardians of Earth, hail and farewell.”
– *West*:
“Guardians of Water, hail and farewell.”
– *South*:
“Guardians of Fire, hail and farewell.”
– *East*:
“Guardians of Air, hail and farewell.”
– Walk widdershins thrice, visualizing the boundary dissolving:
“The circle is open, but unbroken. Merry meet, merry part, merry meet again.”
Ground by touching the earth, eating more, or rooting visualizations.










